I’m learning that the names and labels we use do more than identify things. They shape how we think about them. That realization has been following me around lately, especially when it comes to something close to home. I find myself using the phrase “quiet time” less often and saying “pondering” instead.
A little context may help. In Christian circles, “quiet time” usually means the daily time a person sets aside to read the Bible or other devotional material, think about what they’ve read, and pray. I suppose we landed on the term because the volume level in that time and place is supposed to be low.
So far, so good. But “quiet time” has always carried a little baggage for me. It tends to remind me of how seldom I actually get quiet enough to notice what God may be saying. And what about the mornings when I read and pray in a noisy room, or in a parked car, or with life happening all around me? Do those still count? Laugh if you want, but I have spent real time thinking about this.
There is also this small complication: if I read and pray silently, or even in a soft voice, I can get very relaxed. Then I really do have a quiet time. Unless I snore.
That is why I have grown fond of “pondering.” It better describes what I hope is actually happening. Luke uses the word in a beautiful way when he writes, “But Mary treasured up all these things, pondering them in her heart” (Luke 2:19). In that scene, pondering carries the idea of deep, reflective thought.
But there is more texture to the word than that. Other uses point toward things like meeting, encountering, conversing, and even debating. That sounds a lot like what I need each day. When I go a-pondering, I am not simply checking off a spiritual habit. I am coming to a meeting where I encounter the Master of the universe. I speak to him with my words, and he speaks to me through his Word. And, from time to time, I find myself debating him over something he wants me to do and I do not want to do. Pro tip: don’t. I’m trying to do it less.
Replacing “quiet time” with “pondering” has brought some freshness back to the practice for me. It reminds me that no two meetings between friends are exactly alike. Some days are peaceful. Some are searching. Some are full of questions. Some are full of silence. Pondering leaves room for all of that.
So there you have it, the view from Chester on daily Bible reading and prayer. Your view may be different. You may not like my term at all, and you may already have several better ones lined up. That is fine. Use whatever term helps you show up. The name matters, but not as much as the meeting itself. My hope is that you are having those moments with the Lord, whatever you call them. And if there is anything I can do to help, I would be glad to.




